Numerous times throughout the Charter you have read "in accordance with the
procedures for...." This Procedures section of the Charter outlines the step-by-step
detailed instructions for these various procedures and how they are to be followed. When
you or your Home or leadership are faced with following one of these procedures, you will
be able to do so in a very orderly fashion, and everyone involved will know exactly what
is expected. All Family members will have the same standard, and will be speaking the same
thing, and will know exactly what needs to be done if these procedures are followed
closely. We pray they are a blessing to you.
Because these procedures are precise in their instructions,
and in most cases there has already been some explanation of the purpose behind them, it
will not be necessary to add much in the way of explanation as we have in previous
sections.
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28. PROCEDURES FOR ACCEPTING NEW DISCIPLES INTO A D.O.
HOME
When a person joins the DO Family, he or she moves into
a DO Home and becomes an integral part and influence on the Home that they join, and
eventually on other Homes as well. Thus someone accepted as a new disciple into a DO Home
must meet certain general criteria.
- The final decision of whether and when a potential
disciple is accepted into the DO Family rests with the Home that the new disciple joins.
Acceptance is determined by a two-thirds majority vote, providing all the requirements
listed in point B. of this section have been met, and the Home has prayed and received
confirmation from the Lord.
Taking a new disciple into the DO Family is an important
decision which should be made in united prayer and counsel with the whole Home. It is
imperative to always seek the Lord for His approval and confirmation through prophecy,
visions or verses, asking the Lord to clearly and specifically speak, putting His stamp of
approval on it.--Or to stop you if He doesn't want that person to join as a full-time DO
member. Since you are making the final decision to allow this person to join--not just
your Home but the overall Family--receiving such confirmation from the Lord is extremely
important.
Some factors the Home will want to take into consideration
are:
--the degree of the prospective disciple's commitment and
desire to reach others for Jesus
--their background, including any serious problems that
would hinder their service for the Lord
--their legal situation: marital obligations, military
obligations, etc.
--any problems with relatives or associates
--their financial obligations and debts
--health and any medical concerns
- We should never let these guys in the door to move in until
we know something about them and we've got a real conviction that they've really got the
goods! It's a whole lot harder to get rid of them than it is to take them in.... The
Colony Council has to get together and talk to the guy before they can even accept them.
The Council has to set the standards and the rules and they've got to make the decision on
who's accepted in the number (ML #334A:55,59).
- If you ever need discernment, it's when you take new people
into your Colonies! Have a meeting with your Colony Council and look him [the potential
disciple] over and talk to him (ML #734:30,36).
- We are an army! We're not only an army, but we're training
the officers of the army! We're the toughest officer's training school there is, and
that's what you've got to remember! We're not looking for just any kind of disciples.
We're looking for the right kind who are going to make good fighters and good officers (ML
#334A:17,18).
- If a prospective member has been previously
excommunicated, the Continental Office must give its approval before the prospective
member can rejoin a DO or TRF Supporter Home.
- In some cases the Home may decide that it is wise to wait
for a substantial period of time before accepting a new member into their Home, whereas in
other cases they may allow them to join immediately.
As you'll note, no time frame is given before someone is
allowed to join a DO Home as a full-time member. So we're not ruling out the possibility
of some people wanting to join immediately, but before they cut all worldly ties, forsake
their possessions and become fully integrated into the DO Family, it would be best to have
a period of time to get to know the Family better. This would also allow the Home to have
more opportunity to get to know the prospective disciple. If all the following
requirements are met and two-thirds of the Home's voting members agree, an individual may
join a DO Home as a full-time member.
- With potential new disciples] that's when you need a little
discernment, and in the absence of that, they need to pray for it! If they ever need
discernment it's when they take people into their Colonies (ML #334A:56,57).
- Of course, the time period might vary with some, it depends
on the individual case and the situation. But I would say we certainly should not allow
anyone to actually move in and join until every facet of their case is studied,
investigated and tested, to see if it is really time for them to join. I mean it! Some
cases could be allowed to join sooner than others when you find out that they're really
ready and really whole-hearted and tested and tried and proven (ML #2385:68).
- For a person to become a new disciple they must:
- Have received Jesus as their personal Savior and been
filled with the Holy Spirit.
- A new disciple must be saved, filled with the Spirit (ML
#657:26).
- I don't think anybody ought to join unless they're really
filled with the Holy Spirit, because they're not going to have the power or the grace to
take it (ML #334A:75).
- Be of legal age, or if not, have notarized parental
permission.
As Dad has counseled us, we can't accept underage new
disciples unless they have notarized permission: "We cannot accept [anyone underage]
without written, and preferably notarized permission.... Please don't do it!" (ML
#124:8.) Additionally, though a person may be of legal age to join, in many countries
around the World it is best to also consider the local customs. For example, legal age may
be 18 in the country where you reside, but due to close family ties the accepted custom
may be for persons to remain with their parents until marriage or the age of 21 or more.
For this reason, the Home may find it wise to initiate
communication with the parents and/or close relatives of prospective new disciples of all
ages to make sure they have a basic understanding of the Family, to answer any questions,
and to avoid misunderstandings. If the parents voice any major concerns, the Home might
find it in their best interest to encourage the prospective disciple to be a Catacomber
for a set period of time, during which time he could endeavor to lovingly explain his
new-found faith and commitment and help his parents to overcome their concerns at his
desire to serve the Lord with the Family.
The local Family might want to meet with any concerned
close parents/relatives or associates and explain the work to them before the prospective
member is allowed to join. If parents and associates still disagree, the Home should pray
and count the cost. If there could be potential 10:36 problems which could affect other
Homes in the Area, the affected Homes should be consulted.
- Many, many, many of our people were Catacombers for several
years before their parents allowed them to join. At least that gives the parents a little
more time to get used to the idea.... If in spite of time and parental opposition and
every other obstacle to test them and their faith, they still hang on as Catacombers and
they still come and visit and they're still participating in meetings, and you have time
to really test them to see if they've got the real stuff, you're a whole lot safer in the
long run!... They need to take time to be time-tested, to be Family-tested, with time for
their parents to get acquainted and used to the idea, to see that their child is
determined, is not going to give up, until the parents finally give in! (ML
#2385:57,60,61.)
- Have a basic understanding of the Family, its goals, way
of life, and believe that David was God's Endtime Prophet and that Maria is God's chosen
and anointed successor, who has inherited David's mantle, as God's Prophetess.
In order to ensure that the prospective new disciple has a
clear basic understanding of the Family, we would suggest they should have read through at
least the following Family publications or portions of Scripture, and discussed any
questions with the Home Teamwork or responsible Shepherds:
"Growing in Love"
"Growing in Faith"
The following Basic Statements:
"Family Origins"
"Statement of Faith"
"Christ-Centered Bible-Based Education"
"Our Support"
"Religious Persecution"
The Gospel of John
The Book of Acts, Chapters 1-10, as well as "Acts
1-10!" (ML #1383) from DB 1 or Bk.3.
Responsibilities of Individual Members in the
"Charter of Responsibilities and Rights"
"Fundamental Family Rules" 1-11
If Growing in Love is not translated into your local
language but Treasures is, the prospective new disciple may read the shorter,
edited versions of these articles in Treasures. (The Treasures version of
"Why the Bible?" is entitled "The Most Amazing Book!", and the Treasures
version of "Whose Fool Are You?" is entitled "Why Evolution?")
- You must study and learn these Bible beliefs and rules
prayerfully, accept and To become a Revolutionary for Jesus: promise to obey them before
you join (ML #S:14).
- I just believe in being honest and fair with the people and
letting them know how hard it's going to be so they have a choice to get out of it before
they get into it (ML #334A:73).
- These new babes must have the same Salvation, the same power
of the Spirit, the same motivation, the same desire to forsake all, and the same total
dedication to serve Jesus! They must abide by the same rules of the revolutionary articles
of war, which are the same for both officers and men, from generals to privates (ML
#60:56).
- Show a sincere interest in reading God's Word and desire
to engage in evangelism.
- They [spiritual babes] should be so hungry for the pure milk
of the Word, that if you show them where it's at, they should devour it, drink it in, the
pure, sincere milk of the Word! (1Peter 2:2.) (ML #752:21.)
- A lack of hunger and desire for the Word shows they may not
be truly born!... True Babes will be hungry! (ML #2415:3.)
- If they're willing to witness on the spot to their friends
and classmates and workmates and boss and family, that's their If first witness and that's
the acid test. And if they can't take that, I doubt if they're going to be strong enough
to stay in the Family (ML #1881:17).
- Have a sincere desire to dedicate their life to serving
Jesus with the Family.
- If ... they're not absolutely convinced of the righteousness
of our cause enough to want to do or die daily to love people, we don't want them! We
should never let these guys move in until we know something about them and we've got a
real conviction that they've really got the goods! (ML #657:26.)
- When people join our Family ... they're going to have to
live like they see the Family living, and they're going to have to witness like they see
the person witnessing who witnessed to them! They're going to have to win souls like they
were won! They're going to have to live by faith like the Family lives! They're going to
have to suffer persecution like the Family suffers! (ML #2232:35.)
- Have lived in a DO Home for a minimum of 20 days.
- Having them come in and live with you is even better than a
probation period where they just come in every day and study. You can never find out as
much about what they're like then. It doesn't mean a thing just because they're good on
paper with pencils and they can sit there in class singing, "La-di-da-di-da!"
and shout "Hallelujah!" But if they come in and have to take part in the duties
and the rough stuff, then you find out what they're like real fast! (ML #334A:42.)
- People's first reactions are sometimes euphoric, and then
boom!--They find out it wears off and they either get bored or tired or don't like it and
would rather go back where they came from. They join with euphoric dreamlike ideas of the
Family and then they find out it comes down to just plain ordinary brass tacks and hard
work, and the aura wears off when it gets down to the real hard work of cleaning toilets
and washing dishes and litnessing and whatnot. If they don't really love the Lord and if
it's not really forsake-all because they want to serve the Lord, if they just had some
idea that it might be a nice way to live and it might be fun, then they don't stick and
they go back. It's going to be just as hard work, if not harder, than school or job or
living at home or whatever else they were trying to escape from, even mates and family!
(ML #1654:1-4.)
- After two months--if they decide to stay in the DO
Family--give their material possessions to the Home they've joined, with the understanding
that they will permanently relinquish them, with the exception of those things the Home
decides the new disciple needs.
In order to help the new disciple understand his commitment
to joining the Family and the full ramifications of forsaking all, they should complete in
triplicate and sign the "Statement of Commitment for New Disciples" when they
join. (See Appendix B at the end of this book.) An original copy of this commitment
form should be given to the new member, the Home, and the Area Office. You might find it
beneficial to have this notarized in some countries. In some countries a signature needs
to be notarized to be legally recognized, whereas in other countries this would not be
necessary.
- You will voluntarily and gladly contribute all your worldly
possessions to your local Colony for sharing with your brothers and sisters, as they have
need, according to Acts 2:44-45, and 4:32-35. You will withhold nothing from the Lord,
lest you share the fate of Ananias and Sapphira in Acts 5! Neither will these things be
returned to you, for you have given "as unto the Lord, and not unto men" (ML
#S:14).
- A new disciple must be willing to ... forsake all!--Those
should be some of the first acid tests before they join, or they don't join! (ML
#334A:83.)
- If all agree to give him a chance, then his next step to
prove it is to go home and get all his stuff and his bank accounts and his money and
everything else and turn it over then and there, forsake all and move in! (ML #657:28.)
- Be free from substance abuse and/or the use of illegal or
illicit drugs.
- We talk about rehabilitation from drugs and crime, but we
specialize in the kind [of people] who get instant deliverance through Jesus Christ right
on the spot before they join!--Not those we have to fiddle around with for years after
they join, trying to get them to get the victory (ML #334A:26).
- Be free from contagious disease.
A prospective new disciple needs to report his health and
medical condition to the Home. Some might have a disease that would seriously hinder their
ability to actively serve the Lord as a DO disciple, and it might be best that they not
join as a DO member. Someone who has diabetes and uses insulin may still be an active
member of a DO Home, while someone who has leukemia and needs regular hospital treatment
might find it more difficult to serve the Lord effectively in a DO Home. The final
decision would rest with the Home, except in the case of a serious illness; since that
situation could affect the overall work in that area, the Home Teamwork should counsel
with their Area Officer. A prospective new disciple with a contagious disease should not
be permitted to move into the Home, of course.
- We should have some kind of physical examination for new
disciples. We examine them spiritually before we take them in, why not physically? This
would not be with the idea of refusing them, but to have immediate and definite prayer
about any physical problems they have, and ask the Lord to deliver them before they spread
anything contagious to the rest of the camp (ML #155:57).
- Refrain from any sexual activity during their first six
months in the Family.
a) New disciples joining as a couple may continue to
have sex together during this period.
- Test negative for AIDS before moving into the Home, and
again test negative after a six-month period.
Potential new disciples must provide medical documentation
to prove that an AIDS test was taken before moving into the Home. Anyone who has AIDS or
is HIV-positive would not be able to live in a DO Home.
- All new disciples must take an AIDS test before they are
allowed to move in with us! If their test proves negative, they may move into our Homes,
but they must abstain from sex with others for their first six months in the Family, after
which they take a second AIDS test to make sure they are clear. (DB7, pg.500.)
- Have no debts.
In exceptional circumstances, a Home may, by two-thirds
agreement of the voting members, agree to take on the liabilities of new disciples--such
as vehicle payments, student loan, etc. Generally, though, the rule has always been that a
new disciple "must be free of debts, payments, and family or legal obligations. `Owe
no man anything, save to love him'" (ML #S:7).
- Have no legal or military obligations which
would prevent them from being a full-time member of a DO Home.
There are some legal situations which might not interfere
with DO membership, such as jury duty or obligatory public service for a traffic
violation. In some countries, a short term of military service is obligatory for certain
ages, and they may still be able to attend to this requirement without too much disruption
in their service to the Lord; in which case the Home could agree to accept them according
to the circumstances.
- We cannot accept ... those with legal problems which might
endanger your whole Colony. We cannot risk the whole army for one soldier's personal
problems! Doing so can get your whole work in trouble and give it a bad name with the
authorities and turn them against you (ML #124:8; #156C:8).
- Upon completing the above qualifications, the new
disciple should complete the Personal Data for New Disciples form, a copy of which
should be sent to the Continental Office with your Monthly Report. The new disciple is
then classified as a Babe. After living in a DO Home for six consecutive months,
completing the reading of the "Charter of Responsibilities and Rights" and
"Fundamental Family Rules," and the Babes Basic Course, and having taken
a second AIDS test with negative results, they become a DO member with voting rights. (See
Classifications of Family Membership and Literature, pg.161, for other appropriate
reading material for Babes.)
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29. PROCEDURES FOR MOVING TRF SUPPORTER MEMBERS TO D.O.
STATUS
- Candidates amongst the TRF Supporters being considered
for DO membership need to read and study the "Charter of Responsibilities and
Rights," and if after prayerful consideration they determine that they would like to
attempt to meet the DO standard, they should write the Continental Office
confirming that they have read the Charter and stating their desire to return to DO
Status. In this letter the TRF Supporters should explain their history, why they were
reclassified and what progress they have made in these areas.
- After the Continental Office receives the letter of
request from the TRF Supporter member, they will review the case.
- If the TRF Supporter member(s) is a member in good
standing who consistently TRFs and tithes (or lives in a TRF Supporter Home which does),
whose past history and specific offenses do not make him or her ineligible for prospective
DO Status, the Continental Office will acknowledge receipt of the TRF Supporter
application and will ask an Area Officer or designated DO representative to verify that
they are indeed qualified to commence a probationary DO period of six months.
- If the TRF Supporter member(s) receive notice that their
application has been accepted, the prospective applicants would need to begin implementing
the Charter in preparation for a visit of the Area Officer or designated representative.
They would need to cease all activities that contravene the Charter and implement all
requirements of the Charter.
a) If other members of the TRF Supporter Home also
desire and have applied to return to DO Status, then all members living in the Home should
be notified that their Home is commencing to return to DO Status. All voting-age members
must agree to abide by the Charter for as long as they remain in the Home.
b) If only one individual or a few members of the
original TRF Supporter Home have been accepted to return to DO Status, then those
returning to DO Status will either need to open a new Home by themselves, or ask to be
accepted in an existing DO Home. (See Procedures for TRF Supporter Members Changing to
DO Status and Moving into an Existing DO Home.)
c) If all, or a majority, of the Home
members have been reclassified to DO Status, they have the option of remaining in their
existing housing. However, all members who retain their TRF Supporter Status will need to
move out of the Home.
- If the applicant(s) is not a member in good standing or
one whose past history and specific offenses make them ineligible for a return to DO
Status, the Continental Office will acknowledge receipt of their request, and inform them
of the reasons why their application has not been accepted.
- Once the Area Officer or designated DO representative has
visited the applicant(s) and determined that the applicant(s) is indeed living the
Charter, then the applicant(s) commences a six-month probationary period as a DO
member(s).
- During this probationary period, the applicant(s) must
complete the reading of the Babes Basic Course, which may be ordered from their
Continental Office, available for the printing and shipping costs.
The TRF Supporter applicant(s) should cover the expenses of
the visitation, and it will be left up to the VS/representative to work out the payments
of visits directly with the TRF Supporter(s).
If the reading of the Babes Basic Course is
completed in less than six months, but not less than three months, the applicant(s) may
write their Continental Office requesting their final visit of confirmation as outlined in
point E. below. Such visits will be left up to the discretion of the Continental Offices,
as they will need to take into consideration the other responsibilities of the VS/DO
representative.
- If it is deemed that the TRF Supporter applicant(s) is
not yet living according to the Charter, then the TRF Supporter applicant(s) will not be
placed on probationary DO Status, but will be informed of the areas in which they need to
improve. After the needed changes are made, the applicant can then reapply in writing to
the Area Office requesting a second confirmatory visit. This reapplication must be signed
by all the Home's Officers and at least a simple majority of the other voting members. The
TRF Supporter applicant will be visited to verify.
The cost of the second verification visit should again be
paid for by the TRF Supporter applicant(s).
- During the six-month probationary period, the
applicant(s) will again be visited by an Area Officer/designated DO representative, who
will ascertain if they are indeed adhering to the Charter, and will confirm that they are
eligible to return to DO Status. If at any time the probationary DO member fails to
maintain the DO standard, their probationary period can be extended as the situation
warrants.
- At the end of the six-month probationary DO period, the
TRF Supporter applicant(s) will receive a final visit of confirmation to determine whether
or not they are living according to the Charter. If they are not living according to the
Charter, then a second six-month probationary DO period may begin. If they are living
according to the Charter, then they will commence a transitional DO period lasting six
months.
- During the six-month transitional period, they are
eligible to receive DO mailings, and though they are voting members in their own Home,
they are not eligible to exercise the following DO rights:
a) Right of Mobility.
b) Voting in Home Referendums.
c) Sex with DO adults. (Or for transitional teens, sex
with DO teens.)
As new DO members at this stage have not had their final
AIDS test, they are not eligible to have sex with DO Members.
- At the beginning of the transitional period, all voting
age members of the Home must test negative for HIV and again test negative after a
six-month period.
- After the six-month transitional period, the prospective
DO Home is now a full-fledged DO Home with all the rights pertaining thereto.
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30. PROCEDURES FOR TRF SUPPORTER MEMBERS CHANGING TO
D.O. STATUS AND MOVING INTO AN EXISTING D.O. HOME
- If TRF Supporters want to return to DO status as their
own Home, they must notify the Continental Office of their desire to do so. In their
letter, the TRF Supporters should explain their history and why they were reclassified. At
this time they should also request a copy of the "Love Charter" if they do not
already have one.
- If, after reading the Charter and prayerful
consideration, the TRF Supporters determine that they would like to attempt to meet the DO
standard as outlined in the Charter, they should specify on their TRF that they have read
the Charter and agree to abide by it, and request permission to begin their six-month
probationary period as DO members.
- If the applicants are not in good standing or are
ineligible for a return to DO status, the Continental Office will inform them of the
reasons why their application has been denied within 45 days.
- If notification of ineligibility is not received from the
Continental Office within 45 days, the members may commence a probationary DO period of
six months.
a) If necessary, the Continental Office may postpone the
returning members' probationary period for up to an additional 60 days, during which time
the Home would be visited by an Area Officer or designated DO representative to ascertain
the returning members' eligibility for DO status. The Continental Office must inform the
applicant Home of this delay.
- If other members of the TRF Supporter Home also desire
and have applied to return to DO status, then all members living in the Home should be
notified by the Home teamwork that their Home is beginning their probationary period for
returning to DO status. All voting-age members must agree to abide by the Charter for as
long as they remain in the Home.
- If only one individual or a few members of the original
TRF Supporter Home have been accepted to return to DO status, then those returning to DO
status will either need to open a new Home by themselves or ask to be accepted in an
existing DO Home. (See Procedures for TRF Supporters Changing to DO Status and Moving
into an Existing DO Home on page 98.)
- If all, or a majority of the Home members are rejoining
as DO members, they have the option of remaining in their existing housing. However, all
members who retain their TS status will need to move out of the Home.
- During this probationary period, the applicants must
complete the reading of the Babes Basic Course, which may be ordered from their
Continental Office, available to the applicants for the printing and shipping costs. At
the end of their six-month probationary period, unless a VS or a Continental
Office-appointed designated representative has visited and disqualified the probationary
Home, they will commence a transitional DO period lasting six months.
- The probationary period may be shortened to three months
if all applicants complete the reading of the Babes Basic Course during that time.
In this case, the Home must notify their Continental Office that they have completed the Babes
Basic Course. Unless they hear otherwise from their Continental Office, or an Area or
Continental Office-appointed designated representative has visited and disqualified them,
they will commence their transitional DO period.
- The Continental Office is responsible to supply the
applicant Home with DO TRF forms and reporting instructions.
- During the six-month transitional period, they are
eligible to receive DO mailings. However, though they are voting members in their own
Home, they are not eligible to exercise the following DO rights and privileges:
- Right of Mobility
- Voting in Home Referendums
- Sex with full DO consenting adults and legal-aged teens.
(Or for transitional teens 16 years and over, sex with full DO teens of the same age
bracket.)
- F. At the beginning of the transitional period, all
voting-age members of the Home must test negative for the HIV virus and again test
negative after a six-month period.
- G. At some time during the transitional period, the Home
must receive a visit by an Area Officer or designated representative to verify that the
prospective DO Home is living according to the Charter.
- It is the responsibility of the Continental Office to
ensure that an Area Officer or designated representative visits the prospective Home at
some time during their transitional period.
- The TRF Supporter applicant(s) should cover the expenses
of the VS/designated representative visitation. It will be left up to the
VS/representative to work out the details of such payments directly with the TRF
Supporter(s) applying for DO status.
- If the Area Officer or DR determine the Home is not
living according to the Charter, the Home members must be told by the Area Officer or DR
in what areas they are falling short of the Charter and what they must do to come up to
the DO standard. The Home must again begin their probationary DO period, following the
procedures from point D above onward.
- Once the Home has completed their six-month transitional
period, they become a full-fledged DO Home with all the rights pertaining thereto.
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31. PROCEDURES FOR PLACING A MEMBER ON PROBATIONARY
STATUS
- Probationary Status is a disciplinary measure that can
only be administered by the Home to a member who violates, contravenes or fails to fulfil
the Responsibilities of Individual Members or the "Fundamental Family
Rules."
- A member is placed on Probationary Status for a period to
be determined by a two-thirds majority of the Home's voting members, not to exceed three
months.
- While on Probationary Status, the member:
- Is no longer a voting member of the Home.
- Loses his or her Right of Mobility.
- Can be assigned to read parts or all of the Basic
Course, and other publications Babes that the Home's Officers deem necessary.
- Members can be recommended for Probationary Status by the
Home's Officers, providing the following procedures are adhered to:
- The Home Officers must clearly explain to the Home's
voting members, in the absence of the member in question, showing just cause why the
member is being recommended for Probationary Status, and proposing for how long.
- The matter is to be discussed and voted on, by secret
ballot.
- If a two-thirds majority agree with the recommendation,
the Home Officers must inform the member that he has been placed on Probationary Status,
explaining the reasons why and what is required of him.
- A member that has been placed on Probationary Status may
exercise his Right of Redress if he is not in agreement with the Home's decision.
As you can see, Probationary Status is a disciplinary
measure for a Home member that is decided upon by the Home. When someone is placed on
Probationary Status, they automatically lose their right to vote and their Right of
Mobility. This should be for a predetermined length of time, not exceeding 3 months,
and should be a penalty proportional to the offense. In most cases, a less severe
correction should have preceded a member being put on Probationary Status, such as missing
some activities, etc. It is also a good idea to assign an appropriate reading list to help
strengthen the Home member.
Probationary Status is a disciplinary measure invoked by
the Home and is similar to what was once known as "Babes Status." The member on
Probationary Status should concentrate on reading the Babes Basic Course instead of
reading new DO mailings. However, the Home Teamwork may wish to supplement this reading
list with some DO Letters that they determine would also be beneficial to read, such as
the Tony Series, Bitterness GN (ML #2672, GN 461), etc., depending on the offense.
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32. PROCEDURES FOR MOVING A D.O. MEMBER TO TRF SUPPORTER
STATUS
- A member's DO Status can only be revoked by the
Continental Office if a member violates, contravenes or fails to fulfil the Responsibilities
of Individual Members or the "Fundamental Family Rules," and two of the
three bodies involved (the Home, the Area Office, the Continental Office) agree.
- Members can be recommended for TRF Supporter Status by a
two-thirds majority of their Home, or by an Area or Continental Office, providing the
following procedures are adhered to:
- For the Home to recommend:
a) The Home Officers must first have endeavored through
prayer and counsel to help the member to live up to the Responsibilities of Individual
Members and the "Fundamental Family Rules." They must inform the member of
the way in which he has failed to live up to his responsibilities and what is required of
him, and allow reasonable time for compliance. If, after reasonable time, the member fails
to comply, the Home Officers must inform him that they are recommending to the Home that
he be moved to TRF Supporter Status.
b) The Home Officers must clearly explain and show just
cause to its voting members why the member is being recommended for TRF Supporter Status.
The matter is to be discussed, with the member in question present if he so chooses, and
then voted on by secret ballot. If a two-thirds majority agree with the recommendation, a
letter stating the reasons for the recommendation and the outcome of the vote must be sent
to the Area and Continental Offices, and a copy given to the member. The Office(s) must
respond within fourteen days. During this time the member has the right to send a letter
of rebuttal to the Area and/or Continental Offices.
- For an Area or Continental Office to recommend:
a) A two-thirds majority of the officers from the Office
making the recommendation must agree.
b) The recommending Office must write a
letter to the member explicitly explaining and showing just cause for the recommendation.
A copy of the letter must be sent to the member's Home and all other Offices involved. The
member has the right to send a letter of rebuttal to the Area and/or Continental Offices.
- Upon receipt of a letter recommending one of its members
for TRF Supporter Status, the Home must, within seven days, convene a Home Council Meeting
to discuss the recommendation and vote on the matter by secret ballot. The results of the
vote must immediately be sent to the Area and Continental Office and a copy given to the
member.
- In that Home Council Meeting, the member is free to
present the reasons why he feels he should retain his DO membership.
- If the vote of the Home is to not recommend moving the
member to TRF Supporter Status, the Home's Officers must write to the Area and Continental
Offices explaining why they feel the member should not be moved to TRF Supporter Status.
The Area and Continental Offices must take the Home's vote into consideration when
deciding the matter.
- For a DO member to be moved to TRF Supporter Status, two
of the three bodies (the Home, the Area Office involved, the Continental Office) must
agree to revoke the member's DO Status.
- If two of the three bodies agree, the member must receive
written notification of his change of status from his Continental Office.
Moving someone to TRF Supporter Status can be a difficult
situation for everyone involved. Requiring two of the three bodies to agree to the move
will hopefully ensure that no one is moved to TRF Supporter Status unfairly.
Once the decision has been made to move a member to TRF
Supporter Status, the Home should continue to treat the person lovingly and kindly. They
are still part of the overall Family and are just moving to a level of discipleship for
which they are better suited. An effort should be made to make their move as practical and
easy as possible.
This also holds true for those who are leaving the Family
completely. They are still our Christian brothers and sisters and fellow laborers in His
Kingdom, and we should show them genuine love and concern. Dad said, "Are you sitting
around in your smug, self-satisfied, self-righteous, holier-than-thou complacency
condemning them for straying away and getting lost, cursing them for getting caught in the
brambles or by the wolves, and indifferently writing them off as a lost cause because you
always knew they were only sour grapes anyhow? Are you like the Good Shepherd, who
lovingly seeks to save the lost sheep, or the hireling that's glad to get rid of him as
good riddance to bad rubbish, and one less to have to take care of? Which are you,
Shepherd or hireling? And if they do come back, do you treat them royally, like the Father
did the Prodigal Son, or do you resent them, like the Older Brother? Which are you?"
(ML #155:67.)
If it is a family, a single parent with children, or a teen
leaving, it would be helpful if an effort could be made to help them find a place to stay,
preferably with a relative, or find them an initial landing place of some sort, perhaps
with other TRF Supporters. This will not be possible in every case, and often the member
may not need or want the help, but the point is to be loving and kind to these brethren.
If a case arises in which a Home's members feel that their
Home Teamwork should be put on TRF Supporter Status, but find it difficult to bring this
up in a Home Council Meeting, they may write to their Area Office, which could assist
them.
- Once a member has been notified that he is being
recommended for TRF Supporter Status, the member:
- Loses his Right of Mobility until the matter is
decided.
- Must be freed from his portion of the Home's debts and
liabilities, if indeed he is moved to TRF Supporter Status.
a) If the member is personally
responsible for creating, in whole or in part, debts and/or liabilities due to personally
spending or authorizing the spending of funds which were not agreed upon by two-thirds of
the Home's voting members, he will retain responsibility for those debts. The amount is to
be decided by a two-thirds majority of the Home's voting members.
When a member loses his DO Status and becomes a TRF
Supporter, he normally must be freed from his portion of all debts and liabilities of the
Home. Although we are freeing those moving to TRF Supporter Status of debts and
liabilities to help make their transition as easy as possible, we would hope that once a
TRF Supporter is set up and established, they would want to support the Homes in whatever
way they can, including voluntarily helping financially toward their old Home's debts and
liabilities.
In the case where the member in question has caused all or
part of the debt or liability of the Home, through disobedience to the "Fundamental
Family Rules," or spending funds without having authorization from the Home, he will
still be responsible for all or part of the debt. For example, if the member who is about
to become a TRF Supporter spent $1,000 on unauthorized international telephone calls, he
would not necessarily be freed from that financial obligation.
The amount of obligation that the member in question would
have for the debt or liability in such a case would depend on his personal responsibility
for the debt. If two members of the Home made a major purchase which put the Home in debt,
without prior authorization, the two members would continue to share responsibility for
the debt after becoming TRF Supporters.
- Is free to begin fundraising activities to facilitate his
potential move if it is decided that he is to be moved to TRF Supporter Status.
a) 50% of the net income generated must be used to
facilitate the member's move to a TRF Supporter Home or the setting up of their own TRF
Supporter Home. The amount of funds and time needed to raise these funds can be determined
by a two-thirds majority of the Home.
Once a member has been notified that he is being
recommended for TRF Supporter Status, he may begin fundraising to help facilitate his
potential move. Remember, at this stage the member is only being recommended to be moved
to TRF Supporter Status; he is not yet a TRF Supporter.
- If the member is not moved to TRF Supporter Status, the
member:
- Regains his Right of Mobility.
- Must turn in to the Home any funds generated through his
fundraising activities, unless he decides to depart from the Home.
a) If the member wishes to depart from the Home, all
funds generated through his fundraising activities are first to be used to pay his portion
of the Home's debts and liabilities, with any remaining balance to be used to facilitate
his move.
- When a member is moved to TRF Supporter Status, the Home
is responsible to ensure that the departing TRF Supporter:
- Prepares to leave the Home in an orderly fashion by
turning over pertinent ministry materials, contacts or other legal material, bank
accounts, post office boxes and funds belonging to the DO Home or the Family, and
thoroughly explains his ministries, duties and responsibilities to the appropriate
person(s).
- Only has in his possession publications that TRF
Supporters are authorized to have, in accordance with the Classifications of Family
Membership and Literature in the "Fundamental Family Rules" (pg.161).
- Has had his computer and other personal papers checked
and purged.
- Has a reporting address and related instructions for
reporting to the Continental Office.
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33. PROCEDURES FOR EXCOMMUNICATING FAMILY MEMBERS
- DO members can only be excommunicated by the Continental
Office, and only if the member violates one of the Offences Warranting Excommunication
listed in the "Fundamental Family Rules" (pg.118).
- DO members can be fully excommunicated from receiving
Family literature and from Family fellowship.
- Alternatively, if the Continental Office determines it to
be appropriate and proportionate discipline for the offense, DO members can be partially
excommunicated. Partial Excommunication must be for a period of not less than three or
more than six months.
a) While partially excommunicated, the member:
(1) Must refrain from sexual contact, if the partial
excommunication is for a sex-related Charter offense. The member may have sex with their
mate, if they have one.
i) If the member was partially excommunicated for sexual
activity with a non-DO Family member, they must refrain from any sexual activity with
another person until they are cleared of having contracted HIV, by a first AIDS test to be
taken immediately and a second test to be taken no sooner than six months after the first.
(a) Members who are mated may have sexual relations with
their mate, if their mate agrees, provided they use a condom each time, and the partially
excommunicated member's mate agrees not to share sexually with others until their mate has
been cleared after his or her second AIDS test, six months after their initial test.
(ii) If the member was partially excommunicated for only
deep kissing a non-DO Family member and no other sexual activity, they must refrain from
any sexual activity with another person until they are cleared of having contracted HIV,
by a first AIDS test to be taken immediately and a second test to be taken no sooner than
three months after the first.
(2) Must complete the reading of the Ninety Basic
Letters for Babes in the Babes Basic Course.
(3) Can only read GP/DFO Family literature, as well as
specified DO lit at the Home teamwork's discretion.
(4) Is not a voting member of the Home.
(5) Loses his Right of Mobility.
(i) If a minor under 16 years of age is placed on
partial excommunication, their parent(s) still retain(s) the right to move their child to
another location during this period.
(6) Might be required to live outside of the Home for a
period of time specified by the Continental Office.
(i) If living outside a DO Home during the period of
partial excommunication, the member must test negative for AIDS before moving into a DO
Home, and again test negative after having lived within the DO Home for a six-month
period. They must have no sexual activity during this first six-month period of living in
a DO Home again.
(ii) Members who have been living outside of the DO Home
during their partial excommunication due to sexual activity with a non-DO Family member,
but who are mated, may have sexual relations with their mate upon returning to the DO Home
if their mate agrees, provided this couple use a condom each time, and the excommunicated
member's mate agrees not to share sexually with others until their mate has been cleared
after his or her second AIDS test, six months after their initial test.
(iii) If debts are incurred while living outside a DO
Home during the period of partial excommunication, they must be paid off before the member
moves back into a DO Home.
As you will note, there is a difference between full and
partial excommunication. With full excommunication, besides being cut off from all but GP
Family literature, the excommunicated member may also be cut off from all Family
fellowship for an indefinite period of time. With partial excommunication, it is up to the
discretion of the Continental Office to determine whether the member can serve their
sentence in the Home or not.
The Continental Office may decide to separate the partially
excommunicated member from the DO Home for a given period of time, or to allow him to
remain in the Home during his entire period of partial excommunication. As well, the
Continental Office determines the duration of partial excommunication, but it must be at
least three months and not more than six months.
- Recommendations for full or partial excommunication can
only be initiated by the Home's Officers, or the Area or Continental Office. To recommend
excommunication, the following procedures must be adhered to:
- The Home Officers must inform the Area and Continental
Offices of the member's excommunicable offense, giving full details of the matter.
- Regardless of who initiates the excommunication, the Area
Office must fully investigate the matter, speaking personally with the Home Officers, the
member in question, and anyone else involved.
- The Area Office must inform the Continental Office of its
findings, and its assessment of whether the member has committed the excommunicable
offense, and if so, recommend to the Continental Office full or partial excommunication.
- Upon receipt of the Area Office report and
recommendation, the Continental Office will decide whether full or partial excommunication
is warranted.
- If full excommunication is warranted, the Continental
Office will inform the member and his Home, in writing, that the member's Family
membership is withdrawn.
- If partial excommunication is warranted, the Continental
Office will notify the member and his Home that the member has been partially
excommunicated, specifying all conditions, including the duration of his or her partial
excommunication.